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Wednesday, 14 February 2007

Female trainees' infatuation with their male instructors.

Many a time we would hear of female trainees falling head over heels in love with their male instructors. I called it infatuation or puppy's love.
The age gap between the trainer and the female trainee would be around 10 years. It wasn't a big age gap compared to the time when I left.
The period just before I left the airline, the average age gap between a trainer and his female trainee was about 30 years. Old enough to be her father. So these days you don't hear trainees falling in love or infatuated with their trainers.
In my early years as an instructor to the young girls,I had gone through that experience of trainees getting infatuated with me. I had to counsel them because some of these girls openly expressed their feelings.
Of course, there were also rogue trainers among us who exploited the situation.
One of my own colleagues even made his trainee pregnant. How many of such cases I could not really tell because things were being hushed up or swept under the carpet.
For most of us trainers, we lived by our professional ethics. We did not "dirty our own backyards". As one of my joker ex-colleagues put it " we plucked the best durains
and someone else eat them".
There was one girl in my class who was openly infatuated with me. She would leave little notes on my desk during my absence,telling me how she felt towards me.It was a opened secret because everyone in the class knew about it.
Another one was about a trainee who always asked me for private lessons because she said could "not cope".
Yet another one told me about her past love affairs with married men and how she enjoyed her time with them. It was a big hint for me to make a move.
Yes, admittedly there were many more cases.
Temptation was great but we had to remain strong because we simply couldn't exploit the situation and take full advantage of these young and innocent girls.
I always told them that one of these days when they grew up a little,they would felt embarrassed when we met.
Well, some of them after flying for a while and on meeting me, would confessed that it "was a silly school girl fantasy" to be so called in love with me. We would then laugh it off as matured man and woman.

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10 comments:

Anonymous said...

Lolita
That beh girl gt no class she make up stories which ive heard them bfr way bk in the 70s even bfr she joind the airlines Im sure. Shes giving the airlines a bad name for ppl who has workd or still workg to earn a decent living to support their families. Bad guys r evrywhr nt in in the airlines. Frm the way i read shes just making up juicy nonsensical stories for publicity. Her blog is nt worth reading at all coz its all bull. Mayb u shd give her a tip or to on hw to b a credibly blogger esp when the airlines is involve, shes so immmatute.

Anonymous said...

....nt onli in the airlines

Anonymous said...

You are one lucky guy. Attractive to women. It is a great position to be in. Saying NO to the sweet young girls. BL

Anonymous said...

Have to be a pro mah otherwise might get into deep trouble? But u tell me BL, which cat can resist a nice fresh fish ( not kiam yee ya), rite? :)
BT.

Anonymous said...

Lolita...ty...i will talk to Beh.
BT.

Anonymous said...

A very snr collg. of yrs' rgt? I noe who dat is. Was a malay gal dat got pregnant and went 4 abortion. No need to hide dat statement becas we can still read it.

Anonymous said...

Hi there

I am a final year student at the Singapore Management University.SIA will be recruiting from our uni in less than a week's time and i am planning to apply for the position of an in flight steward.

I was wondering what their criteria is ?? I am Indian and hold an Indian passport. I am really keen on this one. Any tips, comments, or anything at all that comes to your mind will be much appreciated. I can be emailed at hrit82@hotmail.com

Please do email me. Would be grateful

Regards

Suhrit

Anonymous said...

Hi Suhrit,
I don't think SIA would wanna recruit Indian PP holder.
However,policy could have changed since I left SIA. So plse find out from SIA.
BT.

Anonymous said...

Lolita said
Tks uncle but writing all those abt herslf one gets the impression that shes nt gd herslf coz if she had carry herslf well ppl wld hv reciprocate wth respect. Anyway her blg is nt worth readg..

Anonymous said...

Lolita...I've spoken to her and she wld be more careful with her contents in future.Thanks Lolita for bringing up those good points.
Uncle