Below is an email from a reader of my blog pertaining to the above story. There is no way I could verify whether the story is true or not. If the story is true can someone please advise or help the ex-stewardess?
BTW I had permission from the sender of the email to post the story here.
Dear Uncle Boh Tong,
You do have an interesting website and a good insight into SIA crew stories! I stumbled across your website by accident. It is fun to read through and know some of these scandals indeed do exist. I guess the crew members are still human after all!
I actually was hoping to seek your advice or share a story with you. I have a friend who up to recently was a cabin crew of SIA. She met this guy, who was the pilot on her destination route.
I supposed she kind of liked him and they were attached, which of course was a good thing! Some months back, they had an 'accident' and my friend was pregnant. He insisted for her to keep the baby and said he wanted to start a family with him. She was all happy and ready to commit into this new chapter of her life. Not long ago, this guy has decided that he is no longer interested in this relationship and wish to ditch her AND THE BABY altogether! How inhuman could he be? He did not picked up my friend's call and even had his mobile service disconnected (so my friend could not contact him).
Since then, she has tried waiting for him at the Changi airport - to let him know how he has destroyed her life. So she finally manage to meet him one fine day, and guess what - he rushed to his car drove off and knock this pregnant woman down on the way! I can't believe this happened. As a friend, I am very concerned about my friend's welfare. She had not eaten much, her mental state is in disarray, she has attempted suicide (I saw the cut on her wrist) and has mentioned many times when I met up with her that the best she could do now is to leave this world with the baby.
I am at lost at what my friend could do and I aware that there is probably not much you could do too! I am just trying avenues I can find to help my friend and so happen I stumbled upon your blog. I did spend almost an hour reading those interesting articles though! lol. Is there anyway my friend can lodge a complain or to instigate an investigation of this pilot for his improper conduct? I guess it will hard too, seeing that this are personal circumstances?
Do hope to hear from you. Thanks.
BT: I have just got another email (below)from the same sender minutes after I have posted the above.
By the way Uncle Boh Tong, the reason why my friend now is thinking of committing suicide is not because she is still deeply madly in love with this man! She has long gotten over him and in fact hopes karma comes back to bite! She has been advised by most if not all to abort the baby for obvious reasons - but she does not have the heart to do so after being pregnant for so many months. She did tell me that if she were to abort the baby, wouldn't that just make her the same as the father i.e. abandoning the baby as he/she sees fit? That is why she keeps telling herself that the least she could do is to let the baby know that the mum is committed to the baby and is willing to leave this world together...