One senior steward who had a couple of drinks with a Moari guy in Auckland was in the end sodomoised by the latter.
You don't believe this but after his ass was torn and traumatised he was almost sacked by his empoyer. He was deemed to have brought disrepute and shame to his company. Moreover,he was told he broke the company's rule of having his Moari "friend" spent the night in his hotel room.
Mind you that steward was a "straight" guy and not a gay or something.