Friday, February 22, 2013

Life of a flight attendant (Part 3): Vanessa's story of debt, pain and emptiness

What’s life really like behind the bright smiles, perfect uniforms and five-star hotel stays of jet-setting flight attendants? In a three-part series on the inflight service industry, Yahoo! Singapore finds out that it’s not all that it’s cracked up to be. Read Part 1 here and Part 2 here. In the third part of this series, we speak to one Singapore stewardess who was carried away by the good money and high-flying life but now finds herself in poor health and even poorer finances. (For the purposes of this series, only first names have been used as most flight crew are bound by confidentiality agreements). 

 SQ stewardess Vanessa (not her real name) is only 29 but she has over ten credit cards and is more than $30,000 in debt. Despite her growing credit card bills, she continues to live in style, driving a European sports car and owning a wardrobe full of expensive branded bags and clothing, most with their price tags still on.

Her extravagant behaviour is far from uncommon in the industry she works in – in fact, she said, most of her colleagues lead the same lifestyle. Young, beautiful, well-paid and jet-setting, their motto is to “live in the now” – and spend far more than they earn.

 In Vanessa’s case, however, she might have bitten off more than she can chew: she has accumulated so much debt that she currently only pays the interest on her credit cards to keep the banks at bay.

“I know I’m in trouble, but I don’t know how to get out of it. Maybe I’ll sell some of my bags to pay it off. But I can’t sell my car, I’ll make a big loss,” said the petite, pixie-faced young woman during a recent three-hour interview with Yahoo! Singapore.

Vanessa started working as a flight attendant after graduating from a private university here about five years ago and was instantly swept up by the free-spending behaviour of her fellow flight attendants.

“I started off buying one branded bag per long haul trip, which works out to maybe two or three bags or S$4,000 a month for luxury brands like Miu Miu and Prada. Within half a year, I "graduated" to even more high-end brands like Chanel and Hermes and was spending about $7,000 a month on my bags,” said Vanessa, who cringed when she said the amounts out loud.

 While she declined to comment on how much she earned a month, she said that it   was "at least" $6,000 on average.

 Out of this sum, $2,500 a month goes to paying for her car, which she admitted she hardly uses because she is seldom in town, and everything else goes to either shopping or paying part of her debt.

 “Of course, I feel very stupid. I drive an expensive car, carry an expensive bag to meet my friends, but I always leave before meal times to go home and eat plain bread because I can’t afford to eat at a restaurant like them. I have no savings at all. In fact, my balance has been negative since I started to work,” said Vanessa.

Source: Yahoo!

BT: There are many stewardesses like Vanessa not just in SIA but other airlines too. However, these girls can easily recover when they meet their Mr Rich. Some married pilots, rich businessmen and others kept by filthy rich tycoons. Their wealthy husbands, rich boy friends etc could easily settle their debts for them.
But for the stewards who are in the same predicament, they do not have anyone to help them. Eventually they will end up as bankrupts or resort to illegal means to settle their debts. Currently, one of ex colleagues is serving time in prison for cheating. He cheated because he was heavily in debt due to "high living".
It really sad to hear these kind of stories. Who would ever imagine a high-flying stewardess like Vanessa would be eating plain bread at home?


Anonymous said...

an average amount to keep one girl is about $50,000/year. if you are handsome and frequent to NY on 345, you'll get "hi mr.XXXX, you look familiar, you were on my japan flight before right? " ;) would be a signal for u guys ;)

Stories said...

I knew a stewardess who used to spend all her money gambling and shopping. When she ran out of money, she asked her bf for it. Or else, she borrowed.

She lost heavily gambling. Once she lost $10,000 on a trip to Genting.

Anonymous said...

I was a flight stewardess with SQ once upon a time before I settle down to have a family. Vanessa's story sound to me she just been too materialistic, as a cabin crew, everything sound very tempting & good, but to obtain those temptation, you must live with your affortability, if not you will be the next in line just like Vanessa.
When I was rosted a London flight for 2 nights stay in London, I always told myself, maximum expenditure must not exceed GBP50.00, while at that era, the exchange rate is approximately SGD$3.00 = GBP1.00
with that amount, I able to explored the city by taking underground metro with a day pass for just GBP2.60, have a simple meal & only one expensive meal at the "Bugis Street" restaurant by Gluocester Hotel for dinner, which will cost approximately GBP8.50, end of the day, I still have around GBP10.00 to bring home, lot of temptation along Oxford Street & Harrods, but I just determine not to spend any money with those high end shopping center.
With that mentality in me, I managed to save a fair bit of cash & now I am happily running a small business with my husband & we are very happy with our life style.

Anonymous said...

You are very prudent not like me. I worked for many years and gambled a lot in casinos all over Europe and Australia. When I left I was $100,000 in debt.

Anonymous said...

BT did you charm rich tai tais or businessman who want to bao you with your good looks?

Anonymous said...

BT, wads e highest pay for a FSS/FS during a gd mth?

Boh Tong aka Luke Tan said...

No la I got nutting to do with the rich tai tais or businessmen.

In a good month a stewardess can get 5 to 6k