Thursday, April 10, 2014

Her pilot husband is a slut.

Very interesting blog.. I chance upon this blog when I googled for "Singapore Airlines Stewardess Sluts". Boy, was I surprised to find an established blog dedicated to this topic!

Seems so far, your tales from the crypt relates more to the unsavoury behaviours of the flight attendants. What about the shenanigans btw tech crew and SQ stewardess?

I for one am married to a FO on the B777 fleet, and i don't parade the pseudo kebaya by Pierre Balmain.

My husband and I were friends since 16, went to same college, same university. We dated since Uni for 6 yrs before marriage. Married for 5 yrs,we have 2 young sons, the younger just 2 months shy of 1yr.

My husband was in the corporate sector, prior to switchin to SQ. Silly me, supported his move as he always had a passion for flying.

I frequently go on biz trips for work. Once, I had a last min cxl of a biz trip - my husband didn't expect me to be in SG. He landed the evening before but only returned home the next day. I was 6 months pregnant with our 2nd child then.

I confronted him, but of course he feigned innocence on his part. Onus was on me to uncover the dirt. Checked his hp bills, he chalked up over $400 of overseas charges on long conversations to a local number. Called the number, an Ah Lian-sounding lady picked up. (Don't mean to be condescending but the standard of SQ stewardess has really gone down. While some are well spoken, most should really consider a course in British Council).

It was not until i "stole" my husband's hp that I finally made sense of the situation.

There were mushy sms from a string of SQ gals. Now one interesting thing about these gals, they all go by glamorous English names even though their IC is registered with their Hanyun Pinyin names. Sms from gals with names like Ayu, Evone, Janice, Joyce, Kelly, Lisa, Melinda, Monica,Sally,Sherie, Yvonne. Gosh, he got the Alphabets covered!

Now, you men must be thinking "typical SQ sluts" by now. But hold your horses, the bigger slut is my husband. While some of these women knew of his marital status, most did not. He conveniently carries himself as a single man (sans wedding ring...the wedding ring gets in the way of holding the control he says). He parties at Zouk, Thumper, MOS when I'm away on biz trips. Even bring his buddies along; he the eager supplier of the "goods".

Categories of SQ stewardess:
1) Materialistic and shallow types
I confronted the list of gals that he was involved with. And I made sure that they all knew that he was playing all at the same time. And i made sure they knew each other (power of mass sms).

Their reactions were revealing of their characters. Some turned hysterical demanding that he makes a decision between them and his marriage. Some simply insisted that they be reimbursed for the mountain of overseas charges they incurred whispering sweet nothings over the phone. Hilarious!

Then there are the devils. Those, knowing he is married, blatantly flirt and gift-wrap themselves.

They are so bold as to "request" favors to buy duty free items from cosmetics to perfumes. Even though staff discounts apply to all in SQ at Changi Airport.

2) "Victimized" lot
This lot includes but not limiited to:
The bright-eye bushy-tailed newbies. The Chief Flight Stewardess, Leading Stewardess hitting their shelf life in the dating market. Those with hopeless boyfriends on the side who can't maintain their lifestyles.

Prime targets for tech crew. Tech crew being prime catch for these stewardess.

When you think about it, who wants to work as an airline stewardess. It's tough, gruelling job. Stale and dry cabin air, tonnes of make up, bad skin, serving demanding passengers, shuffling around like a geisha in kebaya. Seriously, the SQ kebaya is a job hazard! Constantly monitored for weight and looks, it's no wonder that SIA has high turnover among cabin crew. But they go into the line fully aware of the demands of the job and image of the company. When an airline markets its stewardess and of course not forgetting it's excellent service ..underlying mantra ...Sex sells.

Those who enter with O-levels are especially vulnerable. Without much qualifications, they are stuck in the job. It's a respectable job with good perks but disillusionment easily sets in. It is no surprise that they look for exit doors, and they may come in the form of execs in business class (or even economy class), second officers, first officers or even Captains.

So there you have it. A display of Marslow Hierachy of Needs. Typical women using all their resources to satisfy their needs to ensure that they remain in the gene pool.

It is convenient to generalize SQ stewardess as sluts, flirts, sex maniacs, drug fiends. (Some of terms that turned up by googling SIA stewardess).

Essentially, such 'relationships' boil down to a transaction. They have the goods to sell, and men (tech crew, male cabin crew or men in general) are the ready buyers.

Those searching for a life partner rightly or wrongly, driven by desperation from pressures of the job; cling on the best catch possible.

In my husband's case, he is the biggest slut, not the SQ stewardess.


Anonymous said...

This is a great story, and must have taken enormous courage for the wife (victim) of the pilot to follow through. Sad, but it's true that these young chicks are all out to undress in front of these macho steerers of the B777 throttles. She must have trusted him so much to the extent of not knowing how the inflight environment can have a"nocturnal" influence on male colleagues who are being approached at regular intervals for their choice of meals and drinks by these stewardesses in their body-hugging sarong kebaya.

Years ago, there used to be a senior pilot who had an extra marital relationship with a stewardess. They would arrange to fly together until his wife came to know about it. She gave him an ultimatum. Remove all her pictures and let's migrate or else........and he did.....and they lived happily ever after.

Retired Pilot said...

That "senior pilot" was a colleague of mine. They are living in Perth.

Anonymous said...

It takes two hands to clap, if one part doesn't 'receive' from the 'approacher', these things can't happen.

Anonymous said...

It is definitely better for the young chicks to undress on front of these macho steerers of the B777 throttles, than in front of the bapok and loser stewards...

Anonymous said...

The best revenge she can get is by getting herself screwed by all the other pilots and stewards in sia , and letting all and her husband know about it....

Lian said...

Hi BT, Give slutty SQ stewardesses a break! Don't only googled SQ stewardesses slut, there are just too many and known. What about doing a story on frugal,decent and the old fashioned stewardesses?:))

Anonymous said...

We used to have a stewardess who was very notorious that bore the marks of a nymphomania always longing for more. She got married at an early age to a FS and one the outside, everything seemed so blissful. As time passed, it did not take long before she started showing that she was was missing out on somthing that seemed so crucial to her daily needs......ngare ngare kow.

She started her nocturnal pursuits for more and more different men, one after another with no signs of engaging her brakes.... Her husband, on the other hand, took swift evasive action by leaving Singapore and relocated to the US where he eventually became a very successful business icon in IT. He could have also become a professor.

Heard that she is no longer alive.

Anonymous said...

She kena until so jiat lat how to live long life right?

What cha' on about? said...

Prime targets for tech crew. Tech crew being prime catch for these stewardess.

Meaning what? Thought tech is ugly (pilot, engineer, technician etc). Stewards better looking but not as rich.